DISCLAIMER: this is extremely harsh and it's just my personal views alone, so I'm REALLY sorry if I offend anyone.

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You know what I find extremely disgusting? The fact that people ASKS people for expensive gifts.

Yes I know, at this rate you're thinking something along the lines of " omfg she's such a stingy asian motherfker" but hear me out.

I just find it extremely low when people asks for presents that are like completely over-the-top and expensive, which obviously cannot be purchased with the group members alone. So of course, we, as loving friends of THE ONE, have to resort to scabbing money from an extra 20394039 people, if even that's enough.

Sorry but I aint a cash register and I don't have ATM stamped across my forehead, and I just find it really immoral to go around and ask people to buy really expensive gifts when THE ONE probably don't even know who chipped in for it in the end.

Personally I believe that presents are just suppose to be something really thoughtful and genuine from people who care about you, and shouldn't be expected from THE ONE.. it should be voluntary given. Price shouldn't even be a issue. I'll happily buy my friends presents for whatever it costs voluntarily but I just HATE IT when people DEMAND for SO MUCH out of a friend. If you do then, are they even your friends?

Needless to say, you'll never find me scabbing money from people for other people nor asking people for presents. Cos that to me is just.. disgusting.